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Every quarterback can throw a ball; every running back can run; every receiver is fast; but that mental toughness that you talk about translates into competitiveness.
Coaches Corner
Do we still compete?
Are there any competitors left?
There are two things I notice about today’s competitors.
They’re too nice and lack the ability to finish someone off for the win.
Or they think being arrogant makes them a competitor.
In my recent experience people are shying away from competition.
Instead of embracing the challenge they back away from it.
When placed in a competition against someone else they don’t want to hurt their feelings.
Are we too nice?
Too soft?
Not hungry enough for success?
So comfortable we’ve forgotten how to battle someone for a spot.
We’re wired to compete.
Natural selection is literally known as survival of the fittest.
Our entire evolution and survival was a competition.
If you didn’t wake up ready to compete to live, you probably didn’t.
Where is that killer instinct?
Learning to be a competitor is a huge advantage.
It also makes you a great teammate.
Michael Jordan isn’t the greatest of all time because he was the tallest, fastest, best shooter, highest jumper.
No, he’s the greatest because he was the ultimate competitor.
Athletes like Kobe, Joe Montana, Tom Brady, Nolan Ryan, Roger Clemons are revered for their competitive streak.
None of them had the best stuff of their sport.
You could probably find someone who’s better at a particular skill, but you won’t find anyone more competitive.
This competitiveness is the same reason why LeBron continues to fail to be recognized as the greatest to play the game.
It’s hard to argue he doesn’t have all the skills and attributes, but he’s missing something.
The competitive drive to never get beat.
No matter what your playing field looks like; court, arena, board room, conference hall, bank, or restaurant, when the lights come on there’s no one better.
Become the ultimate competitor, and refuse to lose.
Don’t let the hard work you put in slip away because you don’t want to be mean.
WIN.
Keep winning.
Never stop winning.
Be great.
Behind the Pillars
Competitiveness is a Doorway to Greatness.
It’s a link to several pillars.
Learning to turn on your competitive drive opens the door to a connection to mindset, discipline, resilience, and courage.
Being competitive is a mindset.
It’s a desire to never get beat.
It’s a drive to always perform at our best.
To improve.
Part of the competitive mindset is also seeing your situation for what it is and look for ways to improve.
Being competitive and being a sore loser are not the same thing.
Competitiveness can also drive our discipline.
The desire to win pushes us to do the work required to remain the best.
The mundane and monotonous tasks required to be great aren’t as difficult to attend to.
Our desire to win outweighs our desire to have fun in every moment.
Because winning and being the best is the fun.
Practice is for getting better.
Being competitive can also spark resilience.
Instead of shying away from a loss, we lean into it.
We want another chance to get out there and compete again.
We embrace this learning opportunity as a way to improve even more.
Our goal is singular, to win.
In order to become our best we must be open to continuously learning and growing.
This means accepting losses as chances to prove our toughness.
To prove our drive to improve.
Lastly, competitiveness inspires courage.
You don’t fear a moment when you’re a competitor.
You embrace every challenge as a chance to shine as the greatest.
Each opportunity to show what you’re made of is exactly what you’ve dreamed about.
You don’t fear losing because, you either win or you learn.
Losing doesn’t exist.
You become fearless in competition because the ultimate goal every time you compete is to win.
You’re willing to do whatever it takes.
The only real question is what action must I take next.
As you can see, learning to compete is powerful.
It connects you to several of the pillars of greatness.
You could also probably loosely tie it to purpose, commitment, and people.
Learn to compete.
Every day is an opportunity to get better.
Win the day.
Whether you’re competing with yourself or against others, become a formidable foe.
Win the day.
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